Having a hard time dealing with your spoiled kids? They said that there is no such thing as spoiled kids. Their behavior will depend on how they are being raise. So how do we discipline our kids? Do we spend enough time for them? Do we say ‘no’ when it’s too much?
As a parent I find few things more troubling than watching one of my children — children who have been born to every advantage of a middle-class American life — act like an eye-rolling, foot-stomping Bratz doll. The worst part about it: I’ve done much to encourage it. But it’s not just my kids. I often see other children behaving like selfish, entitled creatures who want more, more, more, and don’t see how lucky they are to have what they’ve got. Any parent whose child has cried because she was told she couldn’t have a particular new toy, or shirt, or cereal knows the feeling.
We have coconspirators, of course. Blame TV, blame peers, blame our status-seeking culture. Heck, blame grandparents for deluging kids with gifts. But no matter how it happened, two-thirds of parents would call their own kids spoiled, to say nothing of everyone else’s, according to a Time/CNN survey.
Luckily, you can implement a cure that doesn’t involve restructuring society. It doesn’t even require restructuring your family. It consists of a series of small-but-significant lifestyle tweaks that won’t take much time or cost a penny. Plus, you can implement the strategies immediately — today, if you want. Just don’t expect immediate results. Like most of parenting, this is a long-term project. To get started:
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